This remarkable post by a pacifist honestly recounts how wall-to-wall Pope this week has caused him profound rethinking of his world-view and an unexpected change of heart towards the responsibilities attached to freedom.
Its relation to feminine-genius is its bearing on chivalry, and the call to defend the defenseless. Violence is not good, certainly, but it occasionally becomes necessary to protect home and hearth. When chivalrous men exist, women and children live in peace, without nagging anxiety. Knowing that this layer of protection is in place allows children to flourish in security -- becoming better adults. This is edifying. Better a man to come at chivalry thoughtfully, treading carefully towards the fullest expression of his vocation than to barrel in recklessly with nary a second glance. We're all better for his honesty.

GSK: I am curious as to the source for your assertion that "when chivalrous men exist, women and children live in peace, without nagging anxiety." An example of this would help me.
Posted by: RCM | Saturday, 19 April 2008 at 03:31 PM
I don't think it needs to be sourced, since it is the basic structure and function of the family. We'll start with the children (who have to come from somewhere). The Church teaches of their right to be born into stable and loving unions between mother and father, who are dedicated to one another and the good of their offspring. This is borne out by psychological data, which shows clearly what children need to thrive. When the mother -- who focuses on the needs of her children (in whatever way is necessary) -- can count on the support and sustenance of a dedicated father, she is free to love, to offer her gift of self. If she is worried about various things (unemployment, abandonment, infidelity, war, rumours of war, famine, etc.) obviously the whole family will be unsettled. Many of these things a husband cannot influence, some he can. If he has a chivalrous spirit -- there is that much more comfort with those who depend on him, knowing he will lay down his life for his beloved, just as Christ did.
An unmarried man (or priest) has a wider sense of chivalry that he can express in different ways. Some men have neglected chivalry; some women belittle it and demand to be independent. Very sad, and it shows in their brittleness towards men overall. I don't deny they have legimate complaints or bad experiences, but for women to work towards collaboration with men they must appreciate the essence of chivalry.
Posted by: gsk | Saturday, 19 April 2008 at 03:43 PM
Ok, so you define "chivalry" with the family. Interesting.
Posted by: RCM | Sunday, 20 April 2008 at 11:45 PM
I define chivalry with the masculine vocation. Anything a man is called to do, he's called do chivalrously. That includes priesthood, religious life, and occasionally the battlefied. Tough vocation, but we all benefit when lived well.
Posted by: gsk | Monday, 21 April 2008 at 07:01 AM
This point could be worth a book!
There is a deep linkage here--On several levels.
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There is interesting book that anyone concerned for chivalry might profit from: The Last Duel
a fictionalized account ofthe last judicial duel fought in the Middle Ages.
Posted by: mj anderson | Wednesday, 23 April 2008 at 02:37 PM