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  • How exciting! Genevieve's first book, The Authentic Catholic Woman, is available from Servant Books now by calling 800-488-0488. With a forward by Christopher West, this work offers a spiritual and practical outline to help all women understand God's plan for their lives.
  • From Father Roger Landry:
    "Genevieve Kineke does all of us a great service in this important new book. Through her profound yet clear exposition of the authentic femininity of the Church as the paradigm for Catholic women today, she not only provides concrete, practical help for women seeking holiness amidst the joys and struggles of married, religious or single life, but provides all Catholics, men and women, with a much deeper understanding of what the Church is and how we, in the Church, are called to respond to Christ and others. This book will nourish every disciple."

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  • From Benedict XVI
    “People have realized that the complete removal of the feminine element from the Christian message is a shortcoming from an anthropological viewpoint. It is theologically and anthropologically important for woman to be at the center of Christianity."
  • Anger and Patrimony (from Donna)
    This is just another of the unintended consequences of the cultural acceptance of contraception and abortion! Men's sexuality has been robbed of its creative essence. It is now viewed as something that imposes a burden on women (when conception happens to occur), something used to control women or something that is purely recreational. Why would men bother?? In taking away their responsibility, we've also robbed them of their significance! In the big picture of humanity, men have been made into nothing more than a nuisance women have to figure out how to control in order to bring about the next generation. Men don't see it as their task to protect the vulnerable because they see themselves as the vulnerable ones. A few well preserved vials of sperm would make men entirely obsolete in the world's ethos today!!
  • Excellent, Dom! (from Teresa)
    That is astounding Robin, and good for you for standing up. At the heart of that matter, I think, is even worse than a gender mixing message. There is an increased sharper and sharper focus on the "self." Solid Catholic teaching returns our focus away from ourselves to Father, Son and Holy Spirit. The original sin, Eve denied her womanhood when she desired to be like "gods." Since the only god she knew was the Father. Where was Adam? He stood impotent... in other words, they were divorced. There's a young girl at Robin's son's high school who was just told that she is the center of the universe and it's a tragic disservice to her.
  • Find the logic (from "me")
    Ditto what Mary said! A lot of high schools have very poor math and science depts, for boys and girls. I also am educated as a chemical engineer, but chose to teach the two years before we had children because its hours were more suited to spending time with children. (I was looking ahead). When it came time and I was pregnant with our first, I realized that I did not want to leave him with someone else, and was able to stay home full time. I am not sure it would have been that easy if we were used to another engineering income and not just a private school teacher income. Also some of my first job offers were out on oil rigs - I had no interest in that at all even though I enjoyed my engineering classes and did well in them. No one discouraged me from an engineering job, on the contrary I got a lot of flack for my decision not to pursue an engineering career.
  • Find the logic (from Mary)
    I've been lurking, but this is one that irritates me. Beats the heck out of me what these "barriers" are. I was educated as a chemical engineer, where 1/3 of our class was women. However, in electrical engineering, only 1 or 2 out of 30 were women. Is it possible that women are Just Not Interested in some areas? Nah, it must be The Man keeping us down so we must legislate (and, I agree -- when they say "legistlate", I hear "quota"). And actually, I have a friend that was also a chemical engineer. When she lost her job, she decided not to go back into engineering and started working from home so she could spend more time with her 3 kids. Also, if nothing else, there are all kinds of incentives for women to enter science and engineering -- scholarships not available to men, guaranteed housing on campuses that do not guarantee housing to the general population, etc. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said that schools in general are not preparing students for the hard sciences. It is truly a sad state of affairs, the lack of science education these days.

Pope Benedict's Monthly Prayer Intentions

  • General intention: "That there may be an increase in the number of those who, as volunteers, offer their services to the Christian community with generous and prompt availability."
  • Missionary Intention: "That the World Youth Day held in Sydney, Australia, may awaken the fire of divine love in young people and make them sowers of hope for a new humanity."

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Redefining victim

Modern wisdom likes to view the prostitute as a business woman with a unique product, who is doing her part in the civic realm, supporting herself in a society that prudishly scorns her contribution. Movies love to twist plots so that "the madam with the heart of gold" is the only sane character, and conventional morality has blinded others to the Real Story. Er, no.

A sad story noted on Fox gives this quote:

"Even though the woman is a prostitute, it doesn't mean she couldn't be a victim," Dalton said Wednesday. "Once she says 'No, it's not OK,' then to have sex with her is rape."

Background: woman contacted for sex ($150) by man, who then refused to pay and allowed his friends to have their way with her -- with no financial compensation. The judge has been upbraided because he found the men guilty of "theft of services."

How about rethinking the whole premise of these "services" and wrap our minds around the possibility that all prostitutes are victims, even when the "compensation" is offered? How about imagining that women (no matter how much they protest) have been sucked into a business that usually has them in a cycle of dependency including addictions, extortion, and oppression?

The judge's verdict is simply an application of the entire premise that sex means nothing other than a bartering object in a low-life economy. (An economy that many high schools and sports teams like to experiment with...) When will sanity prevail to the degree that these women are saved from this living death that serves a chain of sharks who don't give a damn for her?

Any decrease is good

From the NYT:

Bulgaria has become the latest European country to reject the legalisation of prostitution. "We should be very definite that selling flesh is a crime," said interior minister Rumen Petov after the unexpected decision. The country, notorious for sex trafficking, now has to decide what exactly to do about prostitution. It could imitate Sweden where, since 1999, those who buy sex are prosecuted and are therefore publicly identified.

Finland last year made it illegal to buy sex from women brought in by traffickers and Norway is on the verge of imposing an outright ban on buying sex. The city government in Amsterdam is moving to shut down a lot of the brothels in its red light district. In the Czech Republic and three Baltic states attempts at legalisation similar to the Bulgarian one have been turned back. [Mercator]

Nowhere to turn

Here's another angle on prostitution, this time from Greece. Evidently, since the Athens Olympics, Nigerian women have been in great abundance as sex workers, trolling by Omonia Square downtown. They were sold into the business by their families or lured into it by offers of a better life abroad, and now all options are closed:

  • they cannot walk away because of the prohibitive "travel expenses" they must repay;
  • they cannot go home because shari'a law there mandates heavy penalties, usually death;
  • they cannot appeal for help because they are illegal aliens subject to deportation;
  • they cannot find health care, because only Greek prostitutes are eligible;
  • they cannot indict their bosses because the Greek system is hard to navigate;
  • they cannot escape in any way because of the superstitious voodoo curses they believe will hurt their families.

If they are arrested, they then fall into a system that offers little recourse.

Lack of interpreters makes action more difficult. "Victims meet the police for the first time in operations when they are arrested for illegal prostitution or as irregular immigrants," Dafni Tsixli from Amnesty International told IPS. "The majority of policemen are not able to distinguish a victim, and often victims themselves are unable to explain their situation.

"After recognition the victims are given one month to decide if they want to co-operate with authorities, or face automatic repatriation. This is very short notice considering what they are going through. One way or another many of them are deported, and their cases don't go to court. More than half of them become victims of trafficking again."

In Greece support and protection services are organised in a way to reach victims only after they are detained for violation of the law. The help then often comes too late. The victims have already suffered immensely; many of them have been trafficked for years, and are trapped in the complications of a legal system that is largely hostile to them.

Dina Daskalopoupou is a journalist dedicated to bringing the plight of these Nigerians to the attention of the population. Her careful research seems to have come to nothing.

"I published my article in a big paper; I tried to provoke reactions going after the ministry of public with a second article. I left clues that I have information in my hands. No prosecutor, police or politician ever asked for them," Dina Daskalopoupou said.

"I tried hard to understand why so few people react to a crime taking place in front of our eyes, and I think I know the reason. The Nigerian girls are not 'big business.' They satisfy demand from low quality 'customers' -- young Greek guys and migrants. Perhaps they become the prey of corrupted authorities as well. Many seem eager to look the other way."

Utilitarianism at its worst

Amsterdam has long been associated with libertinism, and it's that very reputation which creates the tourist draw, lining the city's coffers with euros, dollars, rupees, yen, and other forms of quantifiable exchanges. Besides the freedom to imbibe drugs, what are the tourists looking for?

[P]rostitutes posing and preening in their windows are a huge draw for visitors. This weekend, the roads and alleys, lined with old-fashion street-lamps, were packed with tourists from all over the world.

Outside the Casa Rosso theatre, large crowds were trying to get in to watch the live sex shows from red velvet seats. A few hundred yards down the street, an erotic museum was also busy. 'It is not reasonable,' shouted Joshua Saley, an 18-year-old on holiday from Woking. 'This is a place where you can be yourself.' His friend, Michael Bailey, said: 'The one place on Earth where you are allowed to do what you want.'

Beside them a tour group headed away from the canal towards another part of the district. Led by their guide, Chantal Moreno, a 28-year-old woman who takes tourists around the area three times a week, they stared in shock at the women beckoning them towards the windows.

Yep. Women in windows -- women for sale. Sex for a price. Prostitution on parade as a life-style choice, an unvirtuous man's dream come true. Not only is the sex-trade legal, and taxed, but the whole atmosphere has been packaged and put up for sale in thematic trinkets and gizmos:

For 14 years, [Mariska] Majoor has run the [Prostitution Information Centre] in order to support women in the area and inform tourists about prostitution in the Netherlands. It is also a souvenir shop with mini statues, T-shirts, mugs, paintings and key-rings. The tourists soon noticed, however, that in place of the models of buses or buildings were those of shapely women in high-heeled boots, leaning against images of the city's famous lampposts.

A huge mural, stretching from the floor to the ceiling, covered one wall, depicting scenes of women in windows. The image was painted by Majoor's father. 'It is his way of dealing with it,' she said. Close by, he had also painted a wooden folding screen with pictures of women dressed in lingerie with their faces lit by a warm red light.

So the men can "deal with it" by marketing it, enjoying the women who work on their backs, and counting the money that makes the town prosper. But lo, what is happening? Crime has crept in?

Last week, the city announced that it would be closing down a third of its famed brothels. Within a matter of months, 52 of the iconic window displays that line the streets of the busy red-light district will disappear.

In a deal worth £18m, officials will buy 18 buildings from [Charlie] Geerts - known as Amsterdam's Emperor of Sex - and close down the 'windows'. The final decision came from the city's mayor, Job Cohen, who argued that the brothels were attracting crime and money-laundering to the area. 'We want to get rid of the underlying criminality,' he told a TV station last week.

"Emperor of sex." An antihero, another contemptable soul using women for his own gain. Who would have ever guessed that prostitution would draw crime! I thought the premise was that legalisation by its very nature made crime disappear. How could this be? Vice breeds vice? Darkness spreads its own shadow? And through it all, Geerts has made cool millions, the town is raking in the tourist revenues, busloads of young fellows like Joshua are salivating and snapping pics, and Majoor and her dad are selling key rings to help the local women get by. Anything wrong with this picture?

Lenin would be so proud!

Boosting the morale of the proletariat is good, so anything to recognize the dedication of workers is always encouraged. Thus, Amsterdam will hoist a statue in honour of the hard-working gals (and guys) in the brothels who have done their part to support the local economy.

The statue, designed by artist Els Rijerse, is of a strong female figure standing in a frame - a doorway or a window - reached by a small set of steps. Seen as an homage of respect to the hundreds of thousands of women and men working in prostitution around the world the statue is meant to give something back to prostitutes, to give them strength and to be something they can feel proud about. The unveiling was an opportunity to present the statue to local residents and business owners of the area.

We presume her strength is undiminished by any STD's, drug habits, or lack of stable home life. No mention is made of companion statues of pimps or children (aborted or otherwise) to stand nearby. The statue stands cold and alone -- much like the girls themselves. Don't say the town didn't give you anything back.

Important petition

John Mallon has brought this urgent petition to my attention, and we cannot let this opportunity go by without acting on behalf of our sisters who will suffer here.

To prepare for the World Cup, Austin Ruse notes:

The Germans have already built a mega brothel in Berlin, right next to the main World Cup venue to accommodate 650 male clients. Wooden "sex huts" called "performance boxes" that look like toilets have been built in fenced-in areas the size of a football field, with condoms, showers and parking for the buyers and a special focus on protecting their "anonymity."

Who will staff these huts?

With official support from the German government, up to 40,000 young women will be "imported" from Central and Eastern Europe into Germany to "sexually service" the men.

These women come from desperately poor circumstances. According to reports, most will not speak German. Most are being "sex trafficked" against their wills.  They are told that they are going to be models, waitresses, or some other harmless occupation.  Many will be brutally assaulted by intoxicated fans.

Whatever their circumstances, each and every one of these young women is someone's daughter, a child of God and deserves our protection! They DO NOT DESERVE to be exploited and sentenced to a life of misery to satisfy the sexual appetites of soccer fans.

Please join your prayers and your signature to this effort to stop this travesty.

Traffic nightmare

While being jammed on the beltway is a bad thing, human trafficking is worse. I call your attention to the general prayer intention of Pope Benedict for February:

That the international community may be ever more aware of the urgent duty to bring an end to the trafficking in human beings.

JP2 as philosopher wrote eloquently of the beauty of the human person and that he could never be used simply as an object for the good of another. Benedict has followed that with his theological approach to love in Deus Caritas Est:

[M]an is a being made up of body and soul. Man is truly himself when his body and soul are intimately united; the challenge of eros can be said to be truly overcome when this unification is achieved. Should he aspire to be pure spirit and to reject the flesh as pertaining to his animal nature alone, then spirit and body would both lose their dignity. On the other hand, should he deny the spirit and consider matter, the body, as the only reality, he would likewise lose his greatness (#5).

Contrast this with the horrific ugliness of human trafficking and you understand the urgent need for prayer. Millions are suffering, mostly women and children. Their inherent dignity is denied, and their bodies are bought and sold like trinkets. Furthermore, Christ suffers with them, in them, and through them.

Prayer, as a means of drawing ever new strength from Christ, is concretely and urgently needed. People who pray are not wasting their time, even though the situation appears desperate and seems to call for action alone. Piety does not undermine the struggle against the poverty of our neighbours, however extreme. In the example of Blessed Teresa of Calcutta we have a clear illustration of the fact that time devoted to God in prayer not only does not detract from effective and loving service to our neighbour but is in fact the inexhaustible source of that service. In her letter for Lent 1996, Blessed Teresa wrote to her lay co-workers: “We need this deep connection with God in our daily life. How can we obtain it? By prayer” (#36).

An odd form of chivalry

Turkish men don't have a problem with using prostitutes, but they want them to be, well, professional. They have proved to be adept at discerning the difference between women who want to sell their bodies and those who have been coerced to enter the trade.

In the past six months, 100 women - mostly from Ukraine, Moldova, Romania or Russia - have been rescued from sex slavery and Turkish police have broken up 10 trafficking networks.

There are two reasons for these results. A charge-free hotline was set up in May by the UN's International Organisation for Migration (IOM) for women to call for help. It is staffed by multi-lingual operators who try to pinpoint where the women are - and then send in the police.

But the second, more unexpected, factor is the chivalry of the Turkish brothel client. Since the hotline started, 74 per cent of tip-offs have come from men: customers who have learned to spot the difference between a professional prostitute, and someone who's been forced into it.

"I've been very surprised," said Marielle Lindstrom, head of the IOM in Turkey. "We haven't noticed this anywhere in Europe. Turkish men seem to have an old-fashioned view of women. They don't mind using prostitutes, but they want the woman to be doing this willingly. If she's found not to be doing it willingly ... it affects their pride."

I suppose we should be grateful for this twist. It's a start in acknowledging the importance of free will. If these men help to send traumatised women home, or at least free them from this horrid captivity, that's a net good. Now as for the culture which condones free commerce in sex ... well, that's the next battle.

And another victory

This is the tiniest blip on a very large radar screen, but for these 19 women, it's everything.

A special task force raided the Cuddles massage parlour in Birmingham and released women who came from a number of countries across Europe and beyond. Four people, a 40-year-old woman and three men, suspected of being part of the management, were arrested and were last night being questioned.

A team of 50 officers - half of them female - were involved in the swoop on Wednesday night. It is thought that the women were tricked into coming to Britain, had their passports taken away and were locked in the grimy massage parlour at night to work. During the day they are believed to have been locked in a nearby house and made to stay there until their evening work began.

Police also found a sawn-off shotgun and four telescopic batons. Windows were boarded up to stop the women escaping and electric fences are also said to have been erected at the rear of the building. "These girls could be subject to violence, sexual assaults and forced to work as prostitutes in the premises."

The women come from Greece, Turkey, Poland, Latvia, Italy, Japan and Hong Kong.

The month-long investigation is part of West Midlands Police's Operation Strikeout, which is targeting violent crime and robbery in the force area. A former visitor to the premises said: "The women were obviously very polite but you could tell they were very cagey and frightened of their bosses."

Kate Allen, the director of Amnesty International UK, urged the Government to sign up to the new European Convention Against Trafficking.

Amnesty International supports the raid and commends the police work. How about the feminists? Dull silence, of course.

Mulieris Dignitatem Anniversary

Speaking Engagements

  • February 28th, 2009 Peoria, IL
    Bishop's Commission on Women--Day of Recollection
  • October 10-12, Aberdeen WA
    Southern Deanery of the Seattle ACCW
  • 3 May, 08 -- Harrisburg, PA
    Diocesan-sponsored day of reflection for women
  • 5 March, 08 -- Saint Patrick's Parish, Natick MA
    WINGS program
  • 10 Feb, 08 -- Congress for Women, Rome, Italy
    Pontifical Council for the Laity, 20th Anniversary Observance of Mulieris Dignitatem
  • Contact info
    Kindly email me at gskineke [at] dignityofwomen.com for me to speak to your parish or women's group.

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