A key element of the account of God’s intervention in human history is that his plan depended on Mary’s cooperation. So many works of art and literature try to capture the celestial anticipation that hinged on her response to the angel’s invitation to become the mother of the Messiah – because this event perfectly revealed the nature of God’s respectful interaction with his creatures. A person cannot be coerced into action, for to do so would undermine the freedom that lies at the heart of our human dignity. Just as Jesus freely chose to act on our behalf through his incarnation and the suffering it required, each human person is invited into a relationship with God.
Jesus’ conception itself requires an act of faith that infinitely transcends that of Abraham (and especially that of Sarah, who laughed in her unbelief). The Word of God who wills to take flesh in Mary needs a receptive Yes that is spoken with the whole person, spirit and body, with absolutely no (even unconscious) restrictions, that offers the entirety of human nature as a locus for the Incarnation (vonBalthasar, Mary: The Church at the Source, p. 104).
Elsewhere, Augustine was more concise in his explanation: “He who created you without you did not wish to redeem you without you" (ibid. p. 84).
Since all generations indeed have called her blessed, which she intimated in her Magnificat, it would be good to ask why. What is it that she did that led to centuries of praise and gratitude? We honour her for the freedom in which she responded to the personal invitation of the angel, which represented the Yes of all creation to the will of God.
Mary is the believing other whom God calls. As such she represents the creation, which is called to respond to God, and the freedom of the creature, which does not lose its integrity in love but attains completion therein. Mary thus represents saved and liberated man, but she does so precisely as a woman, that is, in the bodily determinateness that that is inseparable from man: “Male and female he created them” (Ibid, p. 31).
In the Islamic account of the Annunciation, Mary's conversation with the angel is problematic--being long and complex, and divided into various fragments throughout the Quran, which make it hard to understand. And yet, for all the details (and there are so many, including apochryphal accounts of her son) there is one thing entirely missing – Mary's consent! According to Muhammed: “She said: My Lord! How can I have a child when no mortal hath touched me? He said: So (it will be). Allah created what He will. If He decreeth a thing, He saith unto it only, Be! And it is (Surah III, 47).
Thus Mary’s fiat (her consent) is completely removed from salvation history and God’s will is foisted upon her. Being unequal to men in dignity, Mary's encounter is typical of all Muslim women, whose major decisions are made by their guardians – fathers, brothers, husbands and sons. Christians rejoice in Mary's fiat because it was decisive on the human level for the accomplishment of the divine mystery. In fact the Fathers of the Church teach us that she conceived this Son in her mind before she conceived him in her womb: precisely in faith!
With her fiat, Mary becomes the authentic subject of that union with God which was realized in the mystery of the Incarnation of the Word, who is of one substance with the Father. All of God's action in human history at all times respects the free will of the human "I." And such was the case with the Annunciation at Nazareth (Mulieris Dignitatem, 4).
Kindly, reflect carefully on whether Islam will ever allow women this dignity, this freedom and this spiritual responsibility in their pilgimage of faith. Only as such are they entirely human, and completely capable of an authentic and personal relationship with their God and Creator. Happy New Year!